Friday, April 13, 2012

How Spring Break Broke My Heart

I've tried to stay off Twitter this week.

It's Spring Break for my high school friends and the few tweets I have read have broken my heart. It seems everything we've talked about in Campaigners this year just got thrown out the window...

...of a jeep
...while speeding down the strip at Myrtle Beach
...along with a bottle of Absolut Vodka.

How do we respond when our high school friends make choices we know they're going to regret? What do we do when it seems like they're falling apart?

2,500 years ago there lived a man named Nehemiah, whose very name means 'Jehovah comforts.' He too was saddened over the lives of his friends.

This is how he responded:

"When I heard they were in bad shape, I sat down and wept. I mourned for days, fasting and praying before the God-of-Heaven.

I said, "God, God-of-Heaven, the great and awesome God, loyal to his covenant and faithful to those who love him and obey his commands:

Look at me, listen to me. Pay attention to this prayer of your servant that I'm praying day and night in intercession for your servants, the People of Israel, confessing the sins of the People of Israel. And I'm including myself, I and my ancestors, among those who have sinned against you.

"We've treated you like dirt: We haven't done what you told us, haven't followed your commands, and haven't respected the decisions you gave to Moses your servant. All the same, remember the warning you posted to your servant Moses: 'If you betray me, I'll scatter you to the four winds, but if you come back to me and do what I tell you, I'll gather up all these scattered peoples from wherever they ended up and put them back in the place I chose to mark with my Name.'

"Well, there they are—your servants, your people whom you so powerfully and impressively redeemed. O Master, listen to me, listen to your servant's prayer—and yes, to all your servants who delight in honoring you—and make me successful today so that I get what I want from the king." Nehemiah 1:1-11 (MSG)


I have never mourned for days, fasting and praying over my high school friends.

When I first read the story of Young Life founder, Jim Rayburn,
"Dance, Children, Dance," I was struck by how often he went away to pray. Rayburn prayed for hours and hours, often through the night, interceding on behalf of kids. It reminded me of another man who prayed at night, one who prayed so hard he sweated blood.

I wonder what would happen at our high school if our Young Life team prayed like that.


God of Heaven, give us the boldness of Nehemiah. Give us conviction and desire to pray.
We pray now. We pray for our middle and high school friends, and include ourselves among those who have sinned against you, who have treated you like dirt. Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy.

3 comments:

  1. As a Young Life Leader, Spring Break is usually a time of heart break over our kids. For me, one of the guys told me he lost his virginity....and it crushed me. When you become a leader, you become spiritually and emotionally invested into kids' lives so when they hurt, you hurt. He told me he regretted it and I just felt his pain.

    I needed this post more than you will ever know. Thanks for posting it!

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  2. I am using this post tomorrow at our YoungLives mentor support meeting. It is the time of year when many of our current teen moms become pregnant for a second time and it is heartbreaking to watch them go through this again. It is heartbreaking to watch our mentors wonder if they are doing any good at all. Thanks for your words and the words of Nehemiah.

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  3. Thank you so much! I have a few high school friends of mine who I feel like do the same thing! I did the same thing in high school also! In one ear out the other was always the process.

    Thank you for sharing the word! I must seek God more and pray on behalf of my friends and myself.

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